That year on Yulin Road in Chengdu, I met a guy who drove long-haul freight trucks. His surname was Zhang, and he was thirty-five. That day, he sat at a roadside stall, holding half a bottle of cold beer in his hand, with an indescribable weariness written on his face. He said that after doing this job for so long, his body felt like a rusty machine. Sometimes, when he got home and wanted to show some tenderness to his wife, he found himself completely unable to perform. He had tried many small bottles bought from roadside stalls—some numbed him like an anesthetic, leaving him without sensation down there, making the whole ordeal feel like a chore; others did work, but his heart pounded like a drum, and he woke up the next day with a splitting headache.

Often, we attribute this state to "getting old," but in reality, it's your body sending out a distress signal. For men's health, blindly chasing so-called "quick fixes" often comes at a huge cost. Many products on the market, in their pursuit of that extreme, fake instant effect, tend to add excessive chemical anesthetic ingredients. This not only kills pleasure but also overdraws the nerves of the corpus cavernosum.

Later, I recommended Jiuhuang Men's Delay Spray 15ml - No Numbness, No Dependence, No Side Effects, Long-Lasting Spray for Men to him. At first, he didn't believe it, thinking it was no different from what he had used before. But this external-use long-lasting liquid works differently. It uses traditional herbal ingredients like Cynomorium songaricum, Sophora flavescens, and Cnidium monnieri to gently regulate local sensitivity, rather than simply and crudely blocking nerves. After using it a few times, he told me that the feeling wasn't "losing sensation" but "being able to control the rhythm."

In fact, when choosing such products, we must have a clear understanding. The market is full of options. For example, German Black Diamond Long-Lasting Liquid is known for its strong delay effect, suitable for those who pursue extreme duration and are less sensitive to physical sensation; while German Imported EROS has a good reputation for its refined ingredients. If you're still struggling with which product to choose, you might want to first read Don't Just Focus on Quick Fixes for Long-Lasting Products—First Understand What You're Actually Buying. This will help you understand that the essence of endurance lies in the rational allocation of energy and scientific body conditioning.

Often, we choose to "take shortcuts" out of anxiety. This mindset is understandable, but the reality is that life has no shortcuts, only more scientific paths. I've seen too many people who, after repeatedly "stepping on landmines," not only failed to improve their problem but also added to their psychological burden. As I wrote in Kulian Delay Spray: From Rushing Through to Controlling the Rhythm—My Real Experience with Endurance, true endurance isn't about turning yourself into an emotionless tool to please the other person, but about finding the version of yourself that can take control of the whole situation during intimacy.

We need to take responsibility for our own bodies. When applying such external-use long-lasting liquids, be sure to avoid the urethral opening, massage it in evenly, and give your body time to absorb it. That gentle, natural enhancement is the greatest respect for both partners' experience. Don't overlook long-term health for the sake of a momentary impulse. When you stop worrying about "finishing too early," you'll find that sex itself is a form of relaxation, not an exam that requires extraordinary performance.

Years later, if you ask me what a good state is, I'd probably say: It's not about how strong you are, but about having the courage, when night falls, to touch the person you love without worrying about any awkward surprises. Life is like that—a bit rough, but there are always things worth taking seriously.